fiend-for-nicotine:

jmarie3 replied to your photo: Sometimes, I really do jump the trigger but I…

Cheaters only cheat when they do not have who they want (I have been a cheater in the past).

Exactly but that wasn’t exactly the point I was trying to make. It does play into what I was arguing. Tell me Judy, did you feel a higher level of arousal when you cheated? i know I have.

I didn’t, because there was only ever one I wanted.  I don’t cheat anymore, I don’t have the energy or desire, but when I did, it was a far lesser level of arousal.  Kind of like leftovers.  Sure it was an initial feeling of power, but empty in the end.  I cheated on almost all of them, and all it taught me was if I wanted to cheat, I didn’t want them.  The only one I wanted, I let go.

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   haven’t been with...didn’t feel inclined to cheat on. All the women I’ve dated I really...

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   I didn’t, because there was only ever one I wanted. I don’t cheat anymore, I don’t have the energy or desire, but when I...

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